The Tradition of a Trousseau

The tradition of a trousseau is age-old, when a woman began sewing clothes at an early age in anticipation of her marriage. 
The word ‘trousseau’ comes from the French word ‘trousse’ meaning ‘little bundle’. 

While the concept of a trousseau is no longer practical, the idea of shopping for your wedding night and honeymoon is still enduring and relevant. The implication is timeless! New clothes for a new life!

Depending on where your honeymoon is, you might be packing bikinis for the beach or evening dresses for a European escape. Combine fabrics – cashmere, cotton, silk and lace – to create versatility.

Neutral-toned
Pashmina Shawl

For any trousseau and any destination, a few pieces are essential; a lightweight cotton robe, a cashmere twin set, a little black dress with high-heels and a neutral-toned pashmina shawl and black leggings for comfort ease and practicality.


A trousseau encompasses the going away outfit, honeymoon attire and those special pieces of lingerie you may have purchased for your wedding. 


Although it’s unseen by most, your lingerie is actually a very significant part of your trousseau, and should be carefully chosen.

Lingere Shower Invitation
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You may like to hold a “Lingerie Party” or “Lingerie Shower” with your friends in the lead up to your wedding. Many Lingerie companies will come to you with a full range and create an evening of entertainment for you and your friends. This can be a fun way to browse lingerie and ensure correct sizing. In most cases the Lingerie company will give the host free goods in return for holding the party!

Have your lingerie fitted
by an expert

Working with experienced Lingerie fitters (plus your friend’s input) can ensure that you find the right lingerie for you. Lingerie can flatter your figure or give you a cleavage that suits your wedding gown, smooth your stomach, back or hips.



It is important to take into account if the lingerie can be seen through your wedding gown as some fabrics can be clingy so something plain but made of silky fabric is a good choice. You should take colour into consideration as well. Neutral colours like apricot or flesh coloured lingerie are less obtrusive under a white wedding gown.

Choose the right bra for your gown!

Depending on the bodice of your wedding gown your choice of bra will be important as you do not want to be adjusting straps all day. Strapped or strapless it is a good idea to wear the bra for a day prior to your wedding to make sure you are comfortable. Taking it to all your fittings can also ensure you have the right lingerie for the day. Most Lingerie fitters are experienced with advising you on the right style for your dress.
 

Another part of your trousseau is the Going Away Outfit. Choose an outfit that looks glamorous and can be worn again, plus matches jewellery and accessories that you may already have. You won’t be able to wear your wedding dress again but your Going Away Outfit can be a reminder of the special day for months or years to come. 

Pre Fall 2012 Collection
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Purchasing your Going Away Outfit is a great opportunity to buy something from a designer range such as Oscar De La Renta. Check out all the great outfits from him in his Pre Fall 2012 Collection below:

A Lovely Brunch - Wedding Reception, Day After, Rehearsal or Bridal Shower.

Lately, I’m having such a love affair with brunch celebrations. Brunch parties allow you to throw a super stylish bash without breaking the bank. From the venue to the food, brunch gatherings are in general less expensive than dinners, and they could be as fabulous as an evening soirées. Here is some advice for hosting a lovely brunch for any of your wedding related occasions…

• Having a brunch wedding reception is a great way to cut reception costs. A brunch reception is generally less pricey than dinner. Also, you might have a better chance finding an opening on your venue earlier in the day. Plus, chances are your guests aren’t going to drink as much as they would at an evening reception. If you choose to serve alcohol, wine and champagne is all you need, although mixed drinks aren’t such a bad idea.


• Hosting a casual brunch the day after the wedding is a very hot wedding trend. But, it’s also a great way for newlyweds to thank guests for sharing in their nuptials. Enjoy one final meal with family and friends. For more tips and ideas check out this great article on Project Wedding.


• If you are planning a bridal shower, don't overlook brunch. It's a great time for a laid-back, female-oriented affair that's sure to be enjoyed by all ages.


• While a lot of couples opt to have a rehersal dinner, here is a something new for you – a rehearsal brunch. The greatest example, these images by Matilyn Nakazato.

Photography Marilyn Nakazato via Grey Likes Weddings

There are a wide variety of venues perfect for a brunch. Those who want a trendy atmosphere should look into creative spaces, such as a museum or art gallery. Others may want to opt for a more natural feel by hosting the gathering outside.

Whatever the case, try to keep the event casual. One way to do this is to have a buffet set up, so that guests don't feel pressured to arrive at a specific time.

There are a number of possibilities when it comes to dishes, but coffee and tea are of the utmost importance. A continental breakfast that includes muffins, bread and fruits (or this awesome fruits and veggies bar) can be an affordable and welcoming option for all.